HARDY, PAULA K. (nee Graham), 61of Brookfield, WI, was born to eternal life on Tuesday, January 6th.  Beloved daughter of Patricia Graham; dear sister of Lisa Graham-Brott (John) and Geoffrey Graham (Renata) and longtime beloved girlfriend of Donald Koch.  Paula is further survived by loving nieces, nephews, aunts, an uncle, cousins and friends.  She is preceded in death by her father, Norman Graham.  Paula was a graduate of Washington High School, Milwaukee, WI and Cardinal Stritch College, Fox Point, WI.  She was a patient and caring Paraprofessional Special Education Aid for Milwaukee Public Schools and in her other jobs. Paula enjoyed music-especially singing in her church choir, attending festivals and being with her loved ones. We will all deeply miss her kind, sweet and gentle heart.  Visitation will be held for family and friends on Saturday, January 17th, at 1:00PM followed by a 2:00PM Memorial Service at Wauwatosa United Methodist Church, 1529 North Wauwatosa Avenue, Wauwatosa, WI  53213. Officiating will be Rev. Sue Burwell, whose spiritual guidance has been so valuable.  Memorials in Paula's memory may be made to the church or family.